Is there a Doctor in the house?

1:13 PM Edit This 3 Comments »
Not quite. But close. J successfully defended his dissertation on Tuesday. So, after some edits and turning in a final draft, all of his committee members have agreed to sign off on it and he will officially graduate in May. I did my best to make a weirdly anti-climactic day seem climactic by hosting a small dinner at our favorite Greek restaurant, but J was mostly just tired and worn out from everything. I didn't even take any pictures... well, maybe one, but I don't have it here with me!

On the same day that J defended, Em's Aunt Jenn (J's sister) had her second surgery to finish removing a pesky thyroid. She has had a tough few months after finding a lump in her neck, having half of her thyroid removed, learning there were some cancerous cells there, and going in for round two. She has now begun a low iodine diet so that she can have IRT to find and destroy any remaining thyroid cells in her body. She really deserves a medal of honor as she has handled all of this stress with poise and grace. She has remained her thoughtful self--remembering and participating in all of our big events. She has continued to go to work at her cool job preparing Boston-area teachers to teach important multi-cultural ed. topics to children in their area. I am truly proud to have her as a sister-in-law and look forward to hanging out with her this weekend while she recovers.

What's going on with me, you ask? Well not much but I have still felt totally overwhelmed lately. I am ready for J's paper to be completely done and off his plate. I am ready to know what next year holds for us. I am completely ready for Em to sleep through the night. I have been researching and refusing to pull the trigger on planning a real vacation (that doesn't include visiting any family members-- what?? those exist??) to a warm place where I can sit in a lounge chair, drink in my hand, snack on a little plate beside me, and read a book while getting burnt to a crisp. Aaahhhh... back to work.

THANK GOD.

9:32 AM Edit This 2 Comments »
What an historic day.

We spent yesterday evening listening to speeches by Dr. King and reading a book about Coretta Scott.

Today we're going into Brooklyn to watch the Oath of Office and Inaugural Speech with friends. We are very excited to participate in this event with others--with our family, but with other people around us.

So, grab your tissue box. Let the power of this day get to you. Let it sink in. Thank God-- For my son whose skin is brown and whose name is funny, for my family who thinks that service is important and American Values are more than traditional conservatives ones, and for me--a little white girl who carried around a black baby doll in a small white Indiana town. Let change come.

(PS--Thank God too for my mom who is sharing the inauguration wonderment with her 2nd grade class at a private christian school in Arkansas.)